7 Essential Verbs to Live By

I built Art Biz Coach on action.

The first iteration of my newsletter back in 2002 was titled “Do This” (Zzzzz) and had an action at the end of each issue. My book, I’d Rather Be in the Studio, is broken down into 16 actions.

As we learned when diagramming sentences in 4th grade, verbs are where the action is. No verb, no action.

©Mary Ellen Merrigan, Pearls Plus. Pearl rounds, white Kaishi, coral, glass and sterling silver, 20 inches long. Used with permission.

©Mary Ellen Merrigan, Pearls Plus. Pearl rounds, white Kaishi, coral, glass and sterling silver, 20 inches long. Used with permission.

With that in mind, I got to thinking about a few verbs to live by that you might not normally associate with your art career. See if these resonate with you.

1. Understand

Understand that you are not alone. You are part of a larger community of artists and a distinguished history of art.

Understand how the art world works. Yes, I believe in breaking the rules, but you at least need to be aware of them.

Understand that other artists might have a different journey than yours. Accept their path and forge your own.

2. Crave

©Eva Marie Restel, Thoughtful Hopeful Rose. Ceramic and canvas, 46 x 14 x 4 inches.

©Eva Marie Restel, Thoughtful Hopeful Rose. Ceramic and canvas, 46 x 14 x 4 inches.

Crave creativity.
Crave connection to your art and to other artists.
Crave clarity about your direction.

Be hungry for the information and experiences that will fuel your accomplishments.

3. Devote

It’s easy to recognize when artists aren’t devoted to their work. Lack of commitment yields a lack of results.

Devote sacred time in the studio.
Devote necessary time in your office.
Devote time to your community.

The artist’s life isn’t about taking it easy and making art whenever you want to. Hard work is required, and for that you must be devoted.

On the upside, if you’re truly doing the work you were meant to do, you won’t be able to imagine doing anything else. You’ll enjoy the journey.

4. Trust

You are going to need a strong faith in the path you’ve chosen.

Trust that smart, hard work will pay off.
Trust your instinct.
Trust yourself.

You’ll come across artists that seem to be doing much better than you and begin to question your worth. You’ll encounter family members who doubt your abilities.

Only the unshakeable certainty that you are meant for this artist’s life will get you through these bumpy parts.

5. Begin

Stop waiting for circumstances to be perfect because that will never happen. If you have an idea that you’re excited about, there’s no time like now to start working on it.

Begin a new piece of art.
Begin teaching a new workshop.
Begin a new marketing campaign.
Begin something. Anything.

6. Finish

As you begin, so must you finish. Bottom line: It doesn’t count until it’s done.

Finish your art.
Finish your projects.
Finish your promises.

All of the grand plans and brilliant ideas in the world amount to nothing until they are seen to completion.

©Michael Trinsey, Cherry Cupcake. Digital image. Used with permission.

©Michael Trinsey, Cherry Cupcake. Digital image. Used with permission.

7. Avoid

While art is mostly about embracing new experiences and ideas, accomplished artists understand that avoidance is also an advantageous tactic.

Avoid making comparisons between yourself and other artists. (See “Understand” above.)
Avoid people who crap on your dreams.

Avoid distractions that take you away from your art and your life vision.

Your Turn

Which verb is speaking to you today?

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55 comments to 7 Essential Verbs to Live By

  • My verb for today and this weekend is to explore. I’m going on a four-day retreat in connection with a yearly gathering and I expect many new impressions as I’ve never been there before.

  • Allyson, you always pop into my email inbox just when I need you. Today Begin and Finish resonate with me. Thank you!

  • My verb of the day is cupcake. As in party, celebrate — maybe balloon, too. Thanks AS for the vibe. It is a gift to do this work, and it is sacred work. I’m awed to be permitted it.

  • Grateful—-each moment that I am blessed to see the beauty in creation through my eyes as an artist sees————My art and art-time is a prayerful, sacred time and place and experience.

  • Sometimes my great ideas for the painting I see in my head turn to crud on the canvas and I and most of my painter friends have a pile of unfinished work to prove it.

  • May I have your permission to trpost this on my website blog at Faybeccadesigns.com? Giving you full credit? Thank you…very good to remember.

    • Fay: Glad you enjoyed it. I prefer that you don’t repost exactly as is (duplicate content isn’t good for search engines). I would love for you to quote me and riff off of it. That’d be swell! And LMK when you do.

  • Thank you always encouraging us artist… your workshop made an impact on me…

  • Thank you for this timely post. It spoke to me on so many levels.
    Thank you again.

  • Joe

    Excelant advice…..I remind myself of these myself at times….one other that may add, if I may…is find your passion. You can explore each medium….but you may never excel at any any. Find what you believe that you are good at and strive for perfection…..you may never reach perfection in your own mind….but you will get better…..

  • I’m having trouble with beginning. I’ve finished one painting this year. I’m also sleeping 12-18 hours a day. I think my psych meds need adjusting but it’s taken from November last year until May to find a new psychiatrist that I can afford.

  • MJ Kattelman

    Thank you so much for the verbs. We are doing a plein air tomorrow in Canton, MO and I have a friend who is going too. She doesn’t consider herself an artist an yet she exhibits all but one of the verbs. Can you guess which? Wish us luck tomorrow.

  • Lisa Woodward

    Perfect timing for me as I am getting ready for two big art events. Finish and trust are just the words I needed today. Now I will get back to work. Thank you.

  • Thank you, thank you, thank you for this post. Last night I went to my sister’s Tassy Walden award winners’ ceremony and met two people from the sponsoring organization, Shoreline Arts Alliance. They asked people to come up to speak with them later. So I did. I have a card and an invitation to connect. I will be following up today.

  • Trust resonated with me so much that I wrote it down by hand. (I’m a believer in hand writing as a means to connect with my brain and heart.) But also Understand that my path is different from that of other more successful (monetarily) artists and to accept that, while still being open to perhaps pursuing a different discipline.

  • Anne

    As I head off to an Art opening gala tonight for a Street Banner Art Project, I have 2 of your verbs in mind, Trust and avoid! There were over 120 submissions to the art project and 39 pieces of art were selected, mine being one of them. I have submitted a few times and been rejected and finally this year was selected. I almost did not enter this year because of what felt like patronizing rejection phone calls I have recieved in the past. Off I go with Trust and Avoid in my back pocket!

  • Santiago Edna

    Great list. Thank you for the refreshing discussion of what tends to anchor us down. So my verb for the day is enjoy, as the child with a new box of crayons or as you alone understand, and I will paste the word on my forehead to remember it during those challenging moments

  • I have to admit that I LOVE that you said “CRAP”! You are so sensible and somewhat refined, that to hear that wonderful hard, somewhat dirty word just jarred and delighted me in the best way!
    Thank you!

  • Good verbs to reflect on…Thank you, Alyson.

    I invited my sister to come help me work on one of my projects that I had been dreaming of…videos: promotional, about my art and I hope to get to ones about teaching before she heads home. This encompasses several of your words.

  • This line: ‘Understand that other artists might have a different journey than yours. Accept their path and forge your own.’ Just got me where I live.

    So my verb is Continue. Continue forging my own path.

  • Carol Fielhaber

    Allyson you are so connected and inspiring. This list could me mine as I have been working on changing my life to include my art and personal growth. I had let my art career sit idle for 20 years and at 60 years old, I knew that it was time as I could miss it and it would not let me rest! I am 64 now, working consistently in my studio and producing things I never even imagined. I have never felt so alive in my entire life and it happens without anyone telling me that I am “okay” because I am learning to tell myself. I have been focusing on each and every one of these “verbs” and working hard to do it without causing damage in other areas. It is possible but I realize that it takes a commitment to complete honesty, forgiveness and compassion toward oneself and toward others in our lives.When these things are in play, it works. Change can be scary for us in our journey but it is also frightening to others who have always seen you in a different light. It has proven to be a difficult change for some close to me but when I keep my main focus for the good of all, it works out. Patience and commitment to your true purpose wins. I love you for what you share and that you are willing to make this available for the world. Thank You My Teacher, My Friend!

  • My favourite verbs are Determine and Challenge. They both spur me on when obstacles arise and get me into the studio when there are floors to be swept and dishes to be washed.

  • “Avoid people who crap on your dreams. ” <– I love this. I appreciate directness so this appeals to me.

  • Once again, thank-you for the timely reminders…today it is especially ‘finish what you start’…thank-you for the reminder.I am grateful for this connection . XOXOXO Patti

  • Thanks for posting these verbs to live by as an artist. It really outlines our path to exist as a full fledged artist. No job is easy but being an artist and making a living at what you love is sometimes the hardest job one will ever try. There is no business plan out there that makes sense and people can be so supportive and some so not of your passion. We all have to take from it the satisfaction and relaxation which it gives each and everyone of us and the monetary pluses are icing on the cake. I’ve been painting and selling for over forty five years.

  • Great verbs that make me want to take action. Thanks.

  • Focus is my most important verb right now. Focus deeply on my main goal. Focus on what I need to do and what I need not to do. Eliminate everything that brings me off focus.

  • My verb today is dare. Dare to step out of the confines of my comfort zone. Dare to challenge the fears that hold me back. Thanks for posting these, Alyson. They all resonate with me.

  • Sharon

    Thank you so much for your posts!! I need a swift kick in the behind to get me jump started!! I seem to come up with every excuse in the world to not get started!!

  • Thanks Allyson, Great read & I’ll share it with my artist friends to learn from you.
    Sharon,Having a hard time starting? Then it’s time to just play and you’ll be on your way!

  • “Avoid” speaks to me. I, as we all do, have my inspirations and my Mentors. I know I’m not like anyone else and although I love praise of my art, I am my own critic…everyone else gives me feedback, not criticism.

  • You always have calming, centering posts. Thank you for that and your persistence.

  • Oh how I needed this! Thank You So Much. I’m in the middle of a life milestone, new house, new studio with a new baby on the way. I’ve been struggling to find a balance but I will not give up. I make the time regardless, but we all need a boost once in awhile and this post was exactly that.

  • Ellen Pavlakos

    Allyson Thank You!

    Did I need that today! It was like You were talking to me.
    Thank You!
    Ellen

  • Good Post, very informative.

  • Brilliant post. I’m a big fan of your book! Action is the way to go!! Thanks for the advice AND the inspiration. An important verb for me is “remember”, as in “remember who you are.”

  • Thank you Alyson! Thank you for the wonderful inspiration!

  • All great reminders…Alyson, you are a treasure and your consistency is a super example for me to ‘paint’ a minimal # of hours per week. My verb is ‘Start’…when I need a motivator to make art, I go to the studio as the last activity of the night and squeeze out a basic palette: white, an earth tone, red, blue and yellow…I choose an unfinished panel, place it on the easel and put a sticky note on the taboret. I then write what 1 thing I need to do first on the painting the next morning…somehow that process creates an urgent passion the next morning to ‘get in there’ and at least one thing/step to completion. It works every time for me. Getting ready to make art takes time and a bit of energy, so I prefer doing that at a low energy time at the end of my day. Actual painting or crafting works better in the early morning hours before the ‘world’ starts asking for my attention for non-art things. Thanks again, Alyson, for your ideas!

  • Lyne de Repentigny

    Thank you sooo much for sharing these verbs. They are exactly what my soul needed to hear now. My verb for today is TRUST. Trust that everything is OK, trust that the timing is perfect, trust that this is what I am supposed to do…and that is to create with passion from the heart …😁

    Namaste

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